人生不可不知的40句歪理，歪得很有道理

資料來源: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_laTjJv3D4U

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電影後悔無期中有這樣一句話

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從小聽了很多大道理可依舊過不好這一生

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仔細想想的確如此

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人這一生每個人都是獨一無二的存在

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很多時候看似通用的大道理卻不一定適合所有人

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而那些看似讓人牙口無言的歪理

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卻內涵著許多人生智慧

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我們在生活中或者網上看到很多歪理

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但有的歪理越歪越有道理

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這些歪理一般都是正話反說

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其實就是現實中最切切實實的實話

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是我們在生活中感悟出來的

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經歷多的人看到了都深有體會

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一 只要你不尷尬 那尷尬的就是別人

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在現實生活中臉皮一定要厚

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只要臉皮夠厚 你才有機會贏

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不要因為別人的眼光而停止了自己前進的腳步

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你做的事情別人瞧不起 甚至感到很尷尬

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但自己你瞧不起自己 自己不尷尬

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那別人的眼光就影響不到你

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你仍如求全努力進去有所成就

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最後該尷尬的就是喜歡看笑話的人了

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二 不要不好意思拒絕別人

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反正那些好意思為難你的人都不是什麼好人

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在現實生活中要學會拒絕 該幫就幫

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不該幫的絕不能幫

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不要不好意思拒絕別人

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能夠名目張膽為難你的絕不是什麼好人

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所以不必擔憂什麼

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該拒絕是果斷拒絕

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太善良的人總是吃虧的

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吃好人的虧無所謂

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但吃壞人的虧那就既害己又害人了

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這是縱容壞人

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讓壞人更加肆無忌憚地去難為無辜的人

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所以一定要學會拒絕那些沒事找事的人

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三鐵柱能磨成針

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但木柱只能磨成牙籤

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你是什麼人適合做什麼事做什麼選擇

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你一定要清楚

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選擇部隊努力白費

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每個人的境域不一樣

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經歷不一樣

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認知不一樣

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所學到的東西也不一樣

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所以人一定要選擇合適自己的路去走

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這樣才更容易成功

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此前不是萬能的

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但沒前是萬萬不能的

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這個世界上百分之九十的事情

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都需要前來解決

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剩下的百分之十

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需要更多的前來解決

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足見前對於我們的重要性

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前雖然不是萬能

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但前確實能解決我們生活中的很多事情

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我們大多數一生都在追求金錢

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因為金錢在一定程度上

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能實現我們想要的

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我不要太在意別人對你的看法和說法

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因為不是所有的人都是人

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很多人都很在意別人對自己的看法和說法

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其實別人的看法和說法

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對於我們來說並沒有那麼重要

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重要的是自己如何看待自己

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對於真正為你好的人

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你可以接受和採納他們的看法和說法

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對於看你笑話和打擊你的人

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他們的看法和說法根本就不重要

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你可以直接忽略

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六不為自己的夢想奮鬥

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就得為別人的夢想打工

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人的一生中

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如果你不努力學習

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提升自己為自己的夢想做奮發圖強

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那你就得為他人的沒夢想去搬轉

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你總得去奮鬥

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要麼為自己的夢想而奮進

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要麼為他人的夢想而努力

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想要不奮鬥

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等著天上掉線餅

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那是不可能的

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七好人成佛

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需要9981男

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可壞人成佛只需要放下頭到

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我覺得這句話的主要意思

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是做一個好人比做一個壞人更難

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好人都是付出性的

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而壞人都是索取性的

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索取容易付出男

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索取的人索取習慣了

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哪一天他不索取就能受到稱讚

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而經常付出的人則容易被當成理所當然

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當哪一天不再付出就會被罵

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人要善良

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但不要太善良

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太善良了

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很容易被人們當成理所當然

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那你做再多也很難得到認可

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8.你和流浪狗的區別

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只差一個屬於自己的房子

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其實四處漂泊的人

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和流浪狗沒什麼區別

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最大的區別就是人有龜宿

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而流浪狗沒有

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四處漂泊的人也是沒有心靈的龜宿的

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房子其實算不上龜宿

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只不過是臨時住所

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人的龜宿而是擁有一個完整的家

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這才是龜宿

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四處漂泊的人

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在外面沒有一個完整的家

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為了生活不得不背景離鄉

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心靈早就沒了龜宿

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九萬死不辭

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大概就是每天氣死一萬次

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但仍然不辭職

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在職場上

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不乏總是發牢騷的人

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但總是發牢騷的人

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卻是最不會輕易辭職的人

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因為他們有家庭有孩子要養

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壓力大到

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只能借發些牢騷減減壓

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雖然總是發牢騷

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但他們在工作方面是萬死不辭的

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哪怕是受了多大的氣都好

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他們都要忍下

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然後盡心盡力的工作

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每個人的生活都不容易

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上有老下有小

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家裡沒有金山銀山

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只能自己去慢慢的努力工作

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賺錢養家

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兼上背著整個家庭的人

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離職是不可能的

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哪怕每天被氣死一萬次

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也得苦苦堅持下去

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時和你在一起

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苦一點無所謂

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苦很多就算了

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很多夫妻就是這樣

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兩個人在一起苦一點無所謂

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其實那是不夠苦甚至不苦

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真的到苦的時候

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就沒有幾個夫妻

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能夠攜手共度難關的

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夫妻本是同齡鳥

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大難臨頭各自飛

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雖然不是說

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所有的夫妻都是這樣

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但現實的離婚率這麼高

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這就可以看出

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很多年輕夫妻

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都很難一起去共度難關

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有的人苦了自己

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就毅然居然地選擇了離婚

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十一

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江湖險惡

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步行就撤

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沒有那麼大的頭

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就不要戴那麼大的帽子

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自己步行就要學會先撤退

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等自己的能力提升了

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再重頭再來

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江湖險惡

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所以不要做冷頭青

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強出頭

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自己能力不能還要去做

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就像有的創業

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什麼都沒有準備好

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就憑著一身熱血一股子勁

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結果就是因為什麼都不懂

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還蠻幹到底失敗了

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不但賠光錢

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還背上了居宅

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十二

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有的人是愛你的

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有的人是來給你上課的

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現實生活中

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有的人是愛你的

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愛你的人帶給你溫暖

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帶給你溫暖的人

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你感恩他們

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有的人是來傷害你的

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給你上課的

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傷害你的人

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帶給你困難

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讓你得到磨練

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讓你看透了人性的複雜

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讓你的內心

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變得更加強大起來

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在以後的人生路上

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你不再那麼容易受到傷害

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你的抗壓能力

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也變得逐漸變得強大

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人生路上

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你所遇到的每一個人

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都是你這一生該遇到的

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有愛你的人

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有傷害你的人

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有人愛你

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你要珍惜

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有人傷害你

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遠離他們

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就當歷練

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不要和小人糾纏

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十三

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一直熬夜一直爽

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天亮就送活葬場

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人這一生

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最重要的是什麼

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估計很多人都說

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最重要的是擁有很多很多的錢

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錢確實很重要

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但有一樣東西比錢更重要

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那就是自己健康的身體

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你沒有一個健康的身體

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你就算有再多的錢

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對於你來說

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也沒有任何意義

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很多年輕人喜歡熬夜

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不注意身體健康

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把身體健康當起

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等身體出問題了

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才知道後悔

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沒生過大病的人是不知道的

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人

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哪怕是你擁有再多

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都不如擁有一個健康的身體

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十四

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想著等忙完這一陣就可以休息了

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結果還有下一陣等著你去忙

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人的一生

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有太多太多的所時

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要忙

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生活中的

238
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工作上的等等

239
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忙完了這個忙那個

240
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沒完沒了

241
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很多人都是我要生活

242
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我要養孩子

243
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我要買車買房

244
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所以我需要一直忙的才行

245
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停下就會喝西北風了

246
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就是這樣

247
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想休息又不敢休息

248
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想出去看一下風景

249
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又怕自己要喝西北風

250
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錢是賺不完的

251
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該休息

252
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該出去看看風景的時候

253
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就該停下來

254
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牢一結合

255
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才能讓自己更有動力去生活

256
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我們不能像機器人一樣一隻牢作

257
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這樣的人生是你我不想看到的

258
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十五人生沒有彩排

259
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每天都是現場直播

260
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很多人都說人生獨喜

261
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可人生是沒有彩排的

262
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每一分每一秒都是現場直播

263
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我們的人生不像你的眼睛彩排了好幾次

264
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才放上去給觀眾看

265
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我們的人生每天都在直播現場

266
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過去了就是過去

267
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不能重頭再來

268
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所以我們要珍惜自己的時間

269
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做好自己的本分

270
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儘量展現出最好的自己

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十六

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覺得自己牛逼的人

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是因為自己的圈子實在太小了

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所謂無知者無畏無據

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覺得自己牛逼的人都是在小圈子

276
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不斷誇大自己顯白自己的人

277
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他們所知的圈子太小了

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認為除了自己沒有比自己厲害的了

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就算是知道

280
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還有很多比自己牛的人他們也不想承認

281
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因為這有損自己的面子

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更不會去面對現實

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他們的格局很低

284
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只會像比自己弱的人

285
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或者和自己差不多的人

286
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拼命展示自己的那點可憐的本領

287
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十七

288
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毀滅親情和友情

289
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最徹底的一種方式就是借錢

290
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如今很多人聞借錢色變

291
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因為怕借出去的錢向

292
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迫出去的水樣

293
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有去無回

294
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而且借錢不還的

295
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很多都是自己認識的人

296
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自己的親戚

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朋友

298
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不但錢要不回來

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連親情

300
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友情都失去了

301
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借錢就是毀滅親情和友情

302
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最徹底的方式

303
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對於借錢給人的人來說

304
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更是一種傷害和損失

305
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所以千萬不要隨便借錢給別人

306
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哪怕是自己的親戚和朋友

307
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十八

308
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跌倒了不要緊

309
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你可以爬起來再哭

310
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強者不是不跌倒

311
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強者也能跌倒

312
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強者也會哭

313
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強者在沒有變成強者之前

314
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跌倒過無數次

315
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但在每次跌倒

316
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都能重新爬起來

317
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喊著淚水前行

318
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我們的人生不可能是一番豐順的

319
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總會有坑坑碰碰

320
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跌倒了可以重新爬起來

321
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我們可以哭

322
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但不能沒有了前進的動力

323
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十九

324
00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,520
什麼是頭頭十倒

325
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估計就是頭頭們講的話就是道理

326
00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:11,360
成與心解

327
00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:12,280
雖然很歪

328
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但很有道理

329
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在這個世界

330
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你只要做出成就了

331
00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:16,440
你成功了

332
00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:17,200
你說的話

333
00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:18,800
別人都會把它當成道理

334
00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:20,080
只要你比別人強

335
00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:21,160
讓別人羡慕

336
00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:22,440
你的話在別人看來

337
00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,120
就是治理名言

338
00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,440
就好比一個崇拜老闆的員工

339
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他認為老闆說的句句都是真理

340
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甚至以老闆為偶像

341
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榜樣

342
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二十

343
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可望每個人都懂你

344
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那你得活得多頻繁啊

345
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人活在世上

346
00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:38,480
真正懂你的人

347
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只有你自己

348
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除了你自己

349
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沒有人會真正的懂你

350
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就算是你的知己

351
00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:45,760
也不可能完全懂你

352
00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:47,680
所以不要渴望別人都懂你

353
00:10:47,680 --> 00:10:49,440
每個人都是獨一無二的

354
00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,000
如果別人都懂你了

355
00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,640
那你是多麼的頻繁啊

356
00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:53,800
你的一舉一動

357
00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:55,320
都在別人意料之中

358
00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:56,400
那你也就失去了

359
00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,000
自己的人生意義

360
00:10:58,000 --> 00:10:59,240
真正厲害的人

361
00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,480
都是不希望別人懂自己的人

362
00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,600
自己懂自己就足夠了

363
00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:04,640
二十一

364
00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:06,320
人生不妨大膽一點

365
00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,240
反正最後都要死

366
00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:09,640
你還在自卑嗎

367
00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,640
你要自卑多久

368
00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,640
人生就那麼幾十年

369
00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,080
你要是一自卑

370
00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:16,640
就自卑了幾十年

371
00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,800
那你的整個人生就過去了

372
00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,720
人到最後都是死亡

373
00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,480
無論多麼輝煌的人生

374
00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,360
逃離不了死亡的宿命

375
00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:25,520
在活著的時候

376
00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:26,760
不妨大膽一點

377
00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,400
不要在乎別人的目光

378
00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,640
大膽一點活出自己的精彩

379
00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,520
我們是為了自己而活

380
00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,520
不是為了迎合別人而活

381
00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:35,600
活出自我

382
00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,800
才是我們人生最大的使命

383
00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:38,880
二十二

384
00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:40,600
活著時要開心點

385
00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,600
因為我們要死很久

386
00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:44,640
有的人整日欲寡歡

387
00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:46,080
擔驚結率

388
00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,240
這是因為他們的欲望太多了

389
00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,480
我們生不帶來死不帶去的

390
00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:51,880
你要那麼多的欲望

391
00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:53,600
了到死什麼也帶不走

392
00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,320
你不覺得可笑嗎

393
00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,120
人到了這個世界上是為了什麼

394
00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,600
是折磨自己還是讓自己開悟

395
00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:02,000
我們活著開心點

396
00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:03,480
人生除了生死

397
00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,480
其餘的都是擦傷

398
00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,160
欲寡歡的人生是讓人後悔的人生

399
00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:10,200
樂觀的人生才是讓人覺得

400
00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:11,840
完整有意義的人生

401
00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:13,040
人將死的時候

402
00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,000
就會體會到悲觀的人生

403
00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,560
和樂觀的人生哪個最值得的

404
00:12:17,560 --> 00:12:19,840
悲觀的人是帶著遺憾走的

405
00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,080
而樂觀的人是帶著笑容和滿足走的

406
00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:24,000
二十三

407
00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,160
好好活下來

408
00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,000
每天都有新打擊

409
00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,560
遇到一些挫折總是尋死尋活的

410
00:12:29,560 --> 00:12:32,560
卻不知後面會有更大的挫折擋著你

411
00:12:32,560 --> 00:12:34,120
如果連小小的挫折

412
00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,320
都不能放正心態去戰勝

413
00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:38,880
那後面的挫折就沒你的份了

414
00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:40,720
人生路上經濟彌補

415
00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,360
我們需要有披荊斬擊的心態和能力

416
00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:44,720
放正自己的心態

417
00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:45,920
好好活下來

418
00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,640
面前的小挫折都是為你傳足經驗

419
00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,120
戰勝後面的大挫折而射

420
00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,920
要把人生看成是打怪升級的過程

421
00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,520
你在前面攢作了經驗

422
00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:56,440
後面的困難

423
00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:58,080
就算暫時你沒有戰勝

424
00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:59,920
也不至於把你打趴

425
00:12:59,920 --> 00:13:00,520
二十四

426
00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:01,520
你若成功了

427
00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,120
放屁都是香的

428
00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:04,080
你若失敗了

429
00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:05,000
再有道理

430
00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:06,720
都被認為是放屁

431
00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,760
所謂窮在鬧事無人問

432
00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:10,840
附在深山有遠親

433
00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:12,480
現實就是這麼現實

434
00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,560
你知道了現實很現實

435
00:13:14,560 --> 00:13:16,480
你就不會感到心傷了

436
00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,200
所有人都渴望成功

437
00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,480
所以成功了的人在很多人的眼裡

438
00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,640
說什麼話都是有道理的

439
00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,000
其實我們何嘗不是這樣認為

440
00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,640
沒有人聽失敗者的道理也很正常

441
00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,120
當我們明白了這些

442
00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,080
我們就不能去做無用的爭辯

443
00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:32,440
放下和別人爭辯

444
00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,240
努力學習和做事

445
00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:35,840
帶到春暖花開

446
00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:36,840
二十五

447
00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,520
人生無非是笑笑別人

448
00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,400
再被別人笑笑而已

449
00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,240
不要害怕別人的嘲笑

450
00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,280
嘲笑你的人

451
00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,520
也一樣被別人嘲笑著

452
00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:46,240
有時候

453
00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:47,360
你有何嘗不是

454
00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,080
在嘲諷不如你的人

455
00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:49,880
我們啊

456
00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:51,880
其實就是這麼淺薄和可笑

457
00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:53,520
所有人幾乎都有過笑話

458
00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,000
別人和造別人笑話

459
00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:56,600
所以沒什麼大不了的

460
00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:58,120
想做的事情就去做

461
00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,600
別人笑你不用去理會

462
00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:00,800
當你讀懂人性

463
00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:02,200
這些意料之中的事情

464
00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:03,920
已經不覺得奇怪了

465
00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:04,920
二十六

466
00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,840
窮人的身世一文不值

467
00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,040
富人的流氓一場迷人

468
00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:11,280
在這個以物質為主的世界上

469
00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:12,720
窮人身世和深情

470
00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,920
在很多人看來是一文不值的

471
00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,120
而富人的流氓

472
00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:17,960
卻讓很多人覺得很迷人

473
00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,080
這很傷人心

474
00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,560
但卻很現實

475
00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:21,400
人啊

476
00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:23,000
其實做好自己的本分

477
00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:24,240
就已經足夠了

478
00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:25,760
不要過分得去討好別人

479
00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:26,960
顧及別人的感受

480
00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:28,320
尤其是你窮的時候

481
00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:29,640
你的身世和深情

482
00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,000
不但沒有讓人尊重

483
00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:32,720
反而讓人覺得滑稽

484
00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:33,480
二十七

485
00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,040
你超過別人一點點

486
00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:36,440
別人就會嫉妒你

487
00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,040
你超過別人一大劫

488
00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:39,640
別人就會羡慕你

489
00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:40,560
一個乞丐

490
00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,360
不會去嫉妒一個正常人

491
00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:43,560
但會嫉妒一個

492
00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,560
比自己好一點的乞丐

493
00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:46,680
人性的弱點

494
00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,360
就是希望別人過得好

495
00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:49,880
但絕不希望身邊的人

496
00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,200
過得比自己好

497
00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:52,280
只有身邊的人

498
00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,160
過得比自己好上一點點

499
00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:55,520
那就是嫉妒

500
00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:56,760
人為什麼只和自己

501
00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:58,080
差不多的人比較

502
00:14:58,080 --> 00:14:59,520
因為和自己差不多的人

503
00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:00,320
都在身邊

504
00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:01,320
還是熟人

505
00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:02,360
而那些比自己好

506
00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:03,120
太多的人

507
00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:04,960
都離開他們原來的圈子了

508
00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:06,320
他們只有羡慕的份

509
00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,160
那些比他們好上一點點的人

510
00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:09,280
還是在他們身邊

511
00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:10,760
和他們同一個圈子

512
00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:11,880
所以他們看到了

513
00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,720
別人超過自己了就眼紅

514
00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,280
心裡滿是嫉妒

515
00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:16,120
二十八

516
00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:16,880
小時候

517
00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:18,160
笑是心情

518
00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:19,000
長大後

519
00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:20,520
笑是表情

520
00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:21,800
小時候我們的笑是

521
00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,360
因為真的感受到快樂

522
00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,000
是發自內心的笑容

523
00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:25,960
可長大後

524
00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:27,920
我們的生活壓力慢慢增大

525
00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:29,400
我們內心的那份歡樂

526
00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,120
也慢慢的消失不見了

527
00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:32,800
但我們的臉還是笑容

528
00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:33,560
那是因為

529
00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:34,320
我們要面對

530
00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,040
複雜的人情事故

531
00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:37,000
二十九

532
00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:38,160
這個世界就是因為

533
00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:39,600
有你才存在

534
00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:40,560
當你失去後

535
00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:41,360
整個世界

536
00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,480
都會在你的意識裡消失了

537
00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,040
我們所看到的世界

538
00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,320
都是我們的前意識

539
00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:47,520
給我們呈現的

540
00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:48,520
當我們的大腦

541
00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:49,840
沒有了意識的時候

542
00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:50,800
我們的世界

543
00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:52,600
也就徹底崩塌了

544
00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:53,680
每個人的世界

545
00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:54,840
都是不一樣的

546
00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:55,640
一百個人

547
00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,320
有一百個不一樣的世界

548
00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,560
每個世界都是大同小異

549
00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:00,400
活在世上

550
00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:01,600
不要太過自卑

551
00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,280
你才是世界的主角

552
00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:04,480
其他人的存在

553
00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,640
只是為了讓你沒有那麼孤單

554
00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,440
三十

555
00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:09,080
人生一定要保持樂觀

556
00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:10,000
不然這麼些年

557
00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:11,480
你的牙白刷了

558
00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:12,720
樂觀的人生是

559
00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:14,040
最美的人生

560
00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:15,280
悲觀的人生是

561
00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:16,640
最醜的人生

562
00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:17,920
所有人都喜歡看

563
00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:18,840
美麗的事物

564
00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:20,520
你悲觀給誰呢

565
00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:21,280
人活著

566
00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,040
一定要保持樂觀的心態

567
00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:23,880
很多事情

568
00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:24,640
只要你有一個

569
00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:25,480
樂觀的心態

570
00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:26,520
都可以解決

571
00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:27,360
你的樂觀

572
00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,320
可以讓你精彩地

573
00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:29,360
活在當下

574
00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:30,360
也可以讓你看到

575
00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,160
一個有希望的未來

576
00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:33,360
三十一人活著

577
00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:34,760
臉皮就要厚點

578
00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:35,840
這也不好意思

579
00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,000
那也不好意思

580
00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:38,880
那你怎麼好意思活著

581
00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:40,000
成長路上

582
00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:41,200
我們多多少少

583
00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:43,640
都曾遇到過臉皮太薄

584
00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:45,920
而活得憋屈和痛苦的人

585
00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:46,920
在工作中

586
00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:48,520
他們遇到不懂的問題

587
00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:50,680
拉不下臉面向同時請教

588
00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:51,920
結果十倍公辦

589
00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,480
耽誤了工作的進步

590
00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:54,360
週末

591
00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,360
他們明明想在家裡休息

592
00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,680
卻不好意思拒絕朋友的邀請

593
00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:00,960
不得不拖著皮卷的身軀複約

594
00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:02,960
而讓自己更加疲憊

595
00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,800
其實人生苦短

596
00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:06,200
相比自己的感受

597
00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:07,880
面子並沒有那麼重要

598
00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,120
它是世上最廉價的東西

599
00:17:10,120 --> 00:17:10,920
更何況

600
00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,520
生命裡的機遇大多轉瞬即逝

601
00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:15,440
你礙於臉面不敢去爭取

602
00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,440
只會讓自己原地踏步

603
00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,760
世間從不缺乏有能力的人

604
00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:21,520
最怕比你厲害的人

605
00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,280
臉皮比你還厚

606
00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,400
人生沒有那麼多不好意思

607
00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:26,520
別讓不好意思

608
00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,960
成為你人生路上的半形石

609
00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:30,200
臉皮厚一點

610
00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:31,640
多為自己而活

611
00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,360
爭取自己想要的一切

612
00:17:33,360 --> 00:17:35,680
才是一個人最大的體面

613
00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:37,280
32人沒吃飽

614
00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:38,560
只有一個煩惱

615
00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:39,600
人吃飽了

616
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,280
就有無數煩惱

617
00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:42,320
古人雲

618
00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:43,760
人心不知足

619
00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:45,600
長逢再遇仇

620
00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,840
世間煩惱千千萬

621
00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:50,320
大多是貪心惹的禍

622
00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:51,040
得到了

623
00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:52,200
想要更好的

624
00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:53,800
而忽略了得到的

625
00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:54,560
得不到

626
00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:55,920
便會苦苦追求

627
00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:57,440
令自己煩惱不斷

628
00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:59,520
最終什麼也沒有得到

629
00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:01,520
世間美好的事物和其多

630
00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:04,240
不是每一樣東西都理應得到

631
00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,680
真正聰明的人

632
00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:07,120
知道什麼該留下

633
00:18:07,120 --> 00:18:08,640
什麼該放棄

634
00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:11,320
他們深知時間萬物皆有定數

635
00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:12,840
部屬於自己的東西

636
00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,600
搶求也無果

637
00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,360
人要學會放過自己

638
00:18:16,360 --> 00:18:18,000
珍惜擁有的一切

639
00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,160
才能獲得內心的安寧

640
00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:21,480
幸福的真地

641
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,280
不在於你擁有多少東西

642
00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,560
而在於你懂得知足

643
00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:26,640
33

644
00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,200
不懂得出題人意圖的

645
00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:29,840
永遠拿不到高分

646
00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,360
不懂得客戶需求的

647
00:18:31,360 --> 00:18:33,120
永遠牽不成打單

648
00:18:33,120 --> 00:18:34,600
不懂得伴侶情緒的

649
00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:35,600
類似類活

650
00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,760
都留不住一段好的關係

651
00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:39,240
在人來人往中

652
00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:40,320
我們難免會遇到

653
00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:41,640
行情色色的人

654
00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,000
也會和一些人漸行漸遠

655
00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,520
漸行漸遠的原因

656
00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:47,440
也許有成千上萬種

657
00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:48,720
但其中有一種

658
00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:50,400
便是沒有共情力

659
00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:51,280
共情力

660
00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:52,600
是人及交往中

661
00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,360
不可缺少的能力

662
00:18:54,360 --> 00:18:55,960
沒有共情力的關係

663
00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:57,200
無論怎麼努力

664
00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,840
都無法感知對方真正的需求

665
00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,360
只會讓彼此疲憊不堪

666
00:19:02,360 --> 00:19:04,280
而那些擁有共情力的人

667
00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:05,320
和他們相處

668
00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,360
你總能心曠身已

669
00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:09,680
他們懂得站在他人的角度

670
00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,640
竊身實地的考慮問題

671
00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:12,640
提出想法

672
00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:14,280
基於解決方案

673
00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:15,720
和這樣的人相處

674
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,200
你不必偽裝無需顧慮

675
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,160
當一個人擁有了共情力

676
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,440
也就擁有了為人處事的智慧

677
00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,320
由與人交往中最高級的情商

678
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,880
34一定要保持笑容

679
00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,200
不然這些年的牙都白刷了

680
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,960
生活猶如一面鏡子

681
00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,240
是喜是悲

682
00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:34,840
在於人的選擇

683
00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,560
愁容面對只會脫垮當下

684
00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:39,960
讓人生提前走向下坡路

685
00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,680
笑著面對方能向揚聲掌

686
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,320
勇往直前

687
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,480
以笑容走紅的78歲那歲爺爺羅森

688
00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:49,080
給無數人帶來了歡樂

689
00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:50,320
可他笑容的背後

690
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,520
卻藏著無法言說的通俗

691
00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:53,880
大學畢業後

692
00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:55,520
羅森因各種原有

693
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,160
被電視臺辭退

694
00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:58,760
而他最喜愛的二兒子

695
00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,480
也在此時突換疾病

696
00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:01,840
不幸離世

697
00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:03,440
即便在這樣的情況下

698
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,920
他仍堅持不懈

699
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,120
創作出傷心疏

700
00:20:07,120 --> 00:20:08,320
異心雲落

701
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,280
暗淡不了星空燦爛

702
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:11,520
異化凋零

703
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,800
荒無不了整個春天

704
00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:15,600
人生總是苦樂參半

705
00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,080
沒有誰能一番風順

706
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:18,520
也別讓一世的失憶

707
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,200
成了人生的智慧

708
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,000
誰都有難熬的日子

709
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:23,320
哭也是一天

710
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:24,640
笑也是一天

711
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,520
不如笑著過每一天

712
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,640
無論眼前的路有多黑

713
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:29,640
有多難走

714
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,280
都不要忘記保持微笑

715
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,400
給疲憊的自己打打氣

716
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,000
笑著面對生活

717
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,880
日子才能往前過

718
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,720
苦難才會後退

719
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:39,840
35

720
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,400
鐵柱能磨成針

721
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,920
但木柱只能磨成牙籤

722
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:45,040
材料不對

723
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:46,640
再努力也沒用

724
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,040
張超陽曾說

725
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,320
不要過度努力

726
00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:51,280
機遇和選擇很多時候

727
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,080
是大於個人努力的

728
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:54,440
不如面對現實

729
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:56,480
認真研究適合自己的機會

730
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:57,800
到底在哪

731
00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:58,800
很多時候

732
00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,880
人之所以無法取得成功

733
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,240
不是因為能力不夠

734
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,760
而是選擇出了問題

735
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,040
從而把力氣用在錯的地方

736
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:07,680
就像烏龜在陸地上

737
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,720
永遠也跑不贏兔子

738
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,000
可他在水裡時

739
00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,320
卻永遠比兔子遊得快

740
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,560
成功的道路不止一條

741
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:16,760
但方向錯了

742
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:17,920
走得再遠

743
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,440
也是徒勞

744
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:20,960
做任何事情之前

745
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,760
都要先認清自己的能力

746
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,200
從源頭出發

747
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,240
再結合實際情況精准定位

748
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,160
選對賽道在發力

749
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:29,240
方向對了

750
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,240
努力才不會附著東流

751
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,960
人生之路才能越走越順暢

752
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:34,880
三十六

753
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,560
你把別人想得太複雜

754
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,440
是因為你也不簡單

755
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:39,360
生活中

756
00:21:39,360 --> 00:21:42,240
總有人會抱怨別人思想太複雜

757
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:43,400
卻極少反思

758
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,520
為什麼會覺得別人複雜

759
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:46,640
許多時刻

760
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,560
他人就是自己的一面鏡子

761
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:49,960
你看到別人像什麼

762
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,680
你心中就撞了什麼

763
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,600
人之所以總把別人看得很複雜

764
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,200
是因為這個人本身也不簡單

765
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,120
實際上

766
00:21:58,120 --> 00:21:59,800
世界並沒有那麼複雜

767
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,720
複雜的是人的內心

768
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:02,880
物隨心轉

769
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:03,960
竟由心生

770
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:05,400
你心中有美景

771
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,040
生活自然處處都是美景

772
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:09,320
心簡單了

773
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,240
萬事萬物都會簡單

774
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,240
日子也會越過越順

775
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,000
一個人的境界越高

776
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,040
他的內心就越簡單

777
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,680
在無法重來的一生

778
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:21,400
請用一顆簡單的心奔赴山海

779
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,120
去過理想生活

780
00:22:23,120 --> 00:22:24,160
三十七

781
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:25,320
服人三年

782
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:26,440
三日旺

783
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:27,680
喂狗三天

784
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,080
三年屬

785
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,080
很多時候

786
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:31,680
人不如狗

787
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,880
遠離那些望恩負義的人

788
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,320
因為雷批他的時候

789
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,800
會連累到你

790
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,800
話操理不操

791
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:39,880
生活中

792
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,800
我們難免會遇到望恩負義的人

793
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,400
這些人你對他再好

794
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,240
他只會是做理所當然

795
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,960
甚至還會為了一己私欲

796
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,840
肆無忌憚的傷害你

797
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,960
莫言沒得諾貝爾獎之前

798
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:53,760
和表弟相交甚好

799
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,640
還幫表弟不少忙

800
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,320
可他得諾貝爾獎後

801
00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,440
表弟的行為卻讓莫言心寒不已

802
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:01,240
原來

803
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,120
表弟非但沒有替他高興

804
00:23:03,120 --> 00:23:05,560
反而嘲諷他得獎是運氣好

805
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,120
並四處抹黑他

806
00:23:07,120 --> 00:23:08,200
還在有人面前

807
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,200
貶低他來抬高自己

808
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:11,840
人情保主旨

809
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,680
人性狠如狼

810
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,680
善於惡之在一年之間

811
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,400
你永遠也無從知曉

812
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:18,760
對方是帶著善意

813
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,760
還是惡意與你相交

814
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,360
人性最大的惡勢不懂得感恩

815
00:23:23,360 --> 00:23:24,480
千萬不要對一個

816
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,480
不懂得感恩的人好

817
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,480
人情永遠沒有利益之前

818
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,080
對自己最好的保護

819
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:31,720
是不要高估人性的善

820
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,720
也不要低估人性的惡

821
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:34,600
三十八

822
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,000
闖紅燈的一般有兩種後果

823
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,680
要麼比別人快一分鐘

824
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,680
要麼比別人快一輩子

825
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:41,520
生活中

826
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,640
有不少人剛開始做一件事

827
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,200
就想立刻看到結果

828
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,240
而不停地加快步伐

829
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,040
最終

830
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:49,880
不僅讓自己身心疲憊

831
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,320
而且沒能達到預期的結果

832
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:53,360
韓國插畫勢裡

833
00:23:53,360 --> 00:23:55,640
眼睜有段時間為了出版化級

834
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,400
而把時間安排得滿滿的

835
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,600
不給自己任何喘息的機會

836
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:00,800
可他越焦急

837
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,360
越沒有創作靈感

838
00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:04,720
身體狀態也越來越差

839
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:05,440
後來

840
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,520
他不再把重心放在結果上

841
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,520
而是把精力放在畫作上

842
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:10,760
一段時間後

843
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,200
他不僅順利出版了唱銷書

844
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:14,840
還舉辦了畫展

845
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,600
人生市場漫長的馬拉松在跑

846
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:18,720
拼的是耐力

847
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,240
而不是速度

848
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,560
心急永遠吃不了熱豆腐

849
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:23,520
太過著急

850
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:24,880
往往適得其反

851
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:25,640
慢慢來

852
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,000
反而比較快

853
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,080
寒花一現

854
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,040
卻等待了整個白肘

855
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,080
纏冰一下

856
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,320
卻折腹了好幾個四季

857
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,360
每個人都有自己的花期

858
00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:36,440
沉得住氣

859
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:37,560
耐得下心

860
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,960
才能收穫最終的果實

861
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:40,920
39

862
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,480
當你經歷了生老病死這些大事時

863
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:44,280
才會知道

864
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,960
自己以前半夜的優傷

865
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,560
根本不知一提

866
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:48,360
有人問

867
00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:49,760
有哪些人生道理

868
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:51,480
越早知道越好

869
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,000
有個高贊回答

870
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,400
除了生老病死

871
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,240
人生裡真正重要的事

872
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:57,800
其實沒有幾件

873
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:58,800
健康時

874
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,800
總會把雞毛算批的小事

875
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,920
當成天塌下來的大事

876
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:03,800
並到後

877
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,360
人才明白那些曾牽扯掛肚

878
00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:08,160
百思不得其解的事情

879
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:09,480
都是小事

880
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:10,680
身體安康

881
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,880
才是此生最重要的事

882
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,000
身體十一

883
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,720
其他東西是零

884
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,440
沒有健康的提破

885
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:18,800
世界在美好

886
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,480
都與你無關

887
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:21,520
人生在世

888
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,440
出了生死

889
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:23,840
一切都是擦傷

890
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:24,760
任何事情

891
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,960
都不值得消耗你的健康

892
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,480
與其等到身體垮了

893
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:29,880
才回不當初

894
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:31,280
不如從現在開始

895
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:32,440
沒事早點睡

896
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,080
有空多運動

897
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,560
擁有健碩的身體

898
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,520
才是對自己最大的負責

899
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,440
對家人最好的愛

900
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,640
此事無比贊同慈威格所說的

901
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,000
真理只在瞬間

902
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,000
沒有一個永恆的真理

903
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,440
事事順序萬變

904
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,520
同一件事

905
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,480
不同的人有不同的看法

906
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:51,560
同一個歪理

907
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,760
不同的人有不同的覺悟

908
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,000
真正聰明的人

909
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:56,000
面對歪理

910
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,200
能在歡笑之於

911
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,720
悟透背後的深意

912
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,960
讓生活越過越有滋味

913
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:01,880
關注我

914
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,240
我是才知道

915
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,480
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